Lessons Of Love

Lessons Of Love:

1.       Its not about a feeling of “I love you because I need you”  its about a feeling “ I need you because I love you”. If you feel that you can substitute and get away then its love based on need and not need based on love.

2.       Its not always about I need you, its about I would be there when you need me.

3.       Love is not about you or about me, its always about us. True love is two bodies and one soul, we don’t compete amongst each other, we compete together with others.

4.       Its about being happy in the happiness of the one you love. Its about feeling true happiness seeing the one we love happy and not spoiling that happiness.

5.       Tue love is all about sacrifice and surrender and acceptance.

6.       Its not cursing the one you love when you have a fight, but still wishing happiness and blessings for your loved ones.

7.       Its about protecting the name of your loved ones even when you are most hurt and angry because of them and not letting your near dear ones or any1 say anything bad about them. (few exceptions)

8.       There are no conditions in true love.. its pure and selfless… without limitations and conditions …

9.       Where fear is, love cannot be. These two cannot exist simultaneously. With fear, hate exists. With fear there is no possibility of love to survive.

10.   It’s about “I love you not because of who you are but because of who I am when I am with you “. J

11.   Love doesn’t happen in a day or in a sight … love is a beautiful flower that is cultivated slowly with care and time …  I think that love is like a small plant we cultivate over the years with consistent care, patience , kindness and dedication for years.. many seasons may come, the beautiful leaves may shatter away and only ugly branches may be left… but if it has deep foundation of trust, understanding and faith then it would remain alive through all challenging seasons and outgrow and blossom back to be more beautiful strong and better than ever before with every season over period of time …. Some pests may attack the beautiful plant n make it defaced and decoloured and leave holes all around … but proper care would heal it in time ….